Kurt April
Professor
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Mature Love
Dependence on another’s willingness
Love requires patience
Waiting for another’s readiness
Readiness to respond
Readiness to give
One has to choose to be meek
Not knowing what would happen
In order to find the powerful – the Other
It’s a conscious choice, a mature choice
It requires a handing over of power
To surrender to something greater
To surrender to life itself
A mature relatedness
Long-lasting commitment
Never a false surrender
Never an insincere gesture
Love seeks to bring contribution to society
A creation, possibilities, a larger whole
But remains a paradoxical condition of strength Which only emerges through yielding